I'm feeling guilty

Others have been through far more than I have. I feel bad for even feeling bad.

In the Moment

Shit happens.


It’s pointless feeling guilty about something you can’t change. Instead, think about what you’d do differently next time.


If you’re unsure where the guilt is even coming from, then it usually means you have no reason to feel guilty in the first place. Have a think about how you could boost your self-confidence and train yourself to be able to look at mistakes as a learning curve, not a failure.


Declutter Your Mind: How to Stop Worrying, Relieve Anxiety, and Eliminate Negative Thinking

Learn about the causes of feeling overwhelmed, helping to reframe negative thoughts and turn problems into solutions.


The book claims to “teach you the habits, actions, and mindsets to clean up the mental clutter that’s holding you back from living a meaningful life.”


So, give it a try and let us know if it works for you.


Written by S.J. Scott and Barrie Davenport.


Honest Designers Podcast: Dealing With Mental Health

Designers discuss their own experiences with mental health, and offer an honest look at how mental health can affect those working in the design industry.


If you work in the design industry, then you’re probably familiar with the particular stresses that exist for many of those who work within it – and that was more pronounced than ever in 2020.


It’s nice to listen to podcasts like this, hear from those in your industry about their experiences, and learn how to overcome common hurdles many others in your position are faced with every single day.


How To Actually Get Things Done (Implementation Intentions)

Everyone has had those sudden moments where they think “I’m going to change my ways, I’m going to do that tomorrow” and then the next day they wake up and decide “actually, nah I’ll do it another time”. It’s easy to do.


Common examples of these broken promises to ourselves would be; packing in the cigs, mustering the courage and mental perseverance to get a membership at the gym, waking up before 4:30pm on a Saturday. It’s easy to slip into a rhythm, one that might be stopping you from what you genuinely want to achieve.


This >10-minute video sets out was of actually doing things you set out to do, to get rid of unnecessary guilt and adopt positive and productive habits. Implementation intentions might just help you get that thing done.


Take Note of Your Breakthroughs

A handy technique we’ve used before, to remind ourselves of how great we really are.


Write down a list of all your positive, breakthrough moments, and then write down the times you failed or were rejected. You’ll start to notice a pattern between the two, often pointing toward the success you found due to the failures you’ve endured.

It’s ok to feel sad or angry about rejection, but you can learn from these moments to grow as a person and to spur you on to your next success.


Anxiety UK

Well-known charity providing support if you have been diagnosed with an anxiety condition.


Phone: 03444 775 774 (Monday to Friday, 9.30am to 5.30pm)